It is often difficult to appreciate the difficulty that we have in communicating with each other. I presume that this is primarily because we take communications for granted and defer the responsibility for comprehension to the other party. Conversely, we tend not to spend much effort in helping others understand the level of information that we seek from them to understand situations. I feel this way because I have found lots of situations where people have struggled with ineffective communications and very rare instances where anyone has stepped up to focus on making it more effective.
People face communications challenges often and everywhere; they face them in relationships as well as in professional settings. Communication becomes even more difficult when executive teams are assembled rapidly (in the process of re/building companies) and they need to manage their respective goals while attempting to influence the overall direction of the organization.
Within the context of a team, the difficulty in communications is compounded by a number of factors. Some of these include:
- Personality and communications style (see note below on a Forte Institute profiling experiment)
- Cultural background
- Philosophy
- Experience
- Language and expression skills
- The chemistry (or lack of it) on the leadership team
- The trust level within the team
- The sense of security and overall support that each member on the team feels he or she has from the others
- The clarity of goals and objectives
These factors do not all weigh equally in influencing the degree of the gaps that exist within a team. Moreover, I have come to realize that some of them (leadership, strength of the team and clarity of goals) can more than make up for others.
Communications needs also differ from one individual to another. While one CEO insisted on his team structuring their communications in the S-C-R (Situation, Complication, Resolution) mode ("we have x customers with y workload and are unable to support new efforts without z impact, therefore possible scenarios include …."), another one wanted the R-C format (ex: "just tell me that you need additional headcount to support the needs of new customers"; no additional details needed unless asked for).
[In one company, the leadership team invested in the Forte Institute's Interpersonal Communications System (https://www.theforteinstitute.com/introduction/monograp.pdf)
and a consultant to help us appreciate the difficulty we were having in understanding and consequently working with each other. Through this profiling scheme, it was determined that of the thirteen members on the team, yours truly stood alone in the top left quadrant (Dominant/Conformist -- implying someone who deliberates, is cautious and focuses more on the execution details and less on the big picture) while the other twelve were mostly Dominant/Extroverts -- more apt for the entrepreneurial types, not focused on consequences of their actions or execution details but more focused on the big picture and creative thinking).
Not to indulge into the details of Forte's science or mechanics, one of the things that became clear to everyone was that my deliberations over key technology decisions had often been mistaken for indecisions. Similarly, being on the top left quadrant meant that I tended to focus a lot more on the execution details of specific decisions and recommendations and tended to relate our goals in the context of those details--clearly creating a mismatch in communications style with the others on the team.
Beyond just appreciating our differences in personas and communications styles, I am convinced that there was sufficient depth and detail in such an investment to allow us to improve the overall effectiveness of our communication, should we choose to apply the needed effort. We didn't and the results of this exercise proved futile and a wasted experiment.]
When faced with these circumstances, I have found that people will either resort to the comfort of familiar faces, choosing to work with peers and subordinates from prior organizations -- because the existing working relationship seemingly reduces the overall need for communications or start placing significant emphasis on details, facts and conclusions (and increase the overall quantity of outputs) rather than more qualitative assessment of situations.
And this becomes even a bigger challenge when managing remote teams (regardless of their mandate, i.e. whether they are engaging in sales or development or any other activity). Here the geographies, time differences, language and cultural factors became much more pronounced. While we spent countless hours communicating status report, our understanding of the situation, status, risks and potential actions become increasingly limited. Lack of effective communications here does not in itself lend to project failures but it reduces our ability to understand and manage the situation, thereby increasing the risk of potential failures.
In this context, I applied one simple technique with my team that worked quite effectively for the type of information that I sought from them, although it required trust and patience on both sides and mostly my needing to understand what quantity and quality of output I needed from them. Rather than focusing on the output itself for various status reports, proposals, etc. that they would share with me, I spent more time on each line item asking them three questions:
- Why are they telling me
- Why should I care
- What do they need from me (or someone else on the executive team)
As an exercise, we went through several presentations that they had for me and worked diligently through the line items. The process was tedious and iterative but began to produce effective outputs. It also forced me to focus on all the details and continue to provide them with relevant feedback so that they knew that I was focused on trying to understand the inputs. And lastly, at the end of each session (or call), I would play back for them my understanding of the status or proposal. To the extent that I could absorb it (in abstract terms), they got both encouraged and excited about their efforts.
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